My Opinion:
I was offered dinner and gifts once in
return for pretending to be the guy’s girlfriend in front of his buddies. This
was someone who’d initially made a pass on me on Facebook, but we ran into each
other later on in a function. He was 22 yrs older and seemed okay with the fact
that he and I could never be a couple. He was nice and friendly, told me cool
stories about his life experiences and obsolete marriage. So when he emailed me
the proposition of a sugar relationship, I was shocked! In our prior conversations, he kept bringing up his wealth, his mansions,
his investment accounts etc. I became bored.
Basically a sugar relationship is about willfully
fulfilling each other’s needs with something you can easily give. Usually the
sugar daddy will be looking for a younger woman to spend time with him, care
for him (sexually) and generally stick with him while in return he will offer you financial
and often emotional support. Sometimes a relationship with an older male sugar
daddy may prove even more fulfilling than that of a younger, more conventional
guy as the focus centers around old-school romance - hey, most women can deal with
that.
I think sex and money in the same context is always unsavory to most people. I have to admit, if you are young and hot and needing money, this might have an appeal.
Now that said, is this idea any different
than when women would open their legs for a normal relationship but not without
one? How is trading sex for a relationship truly different than trading sex for
money?
It sounds like I’m advocating all women to
be sluts and sleep around. Nope. NOT. AT. ALL. This doesn’t mean having sex
with every man (or any man) who expresses interest in you, but I am simply saying:
- YOU must understand that all men who express interest in you want to have sex
with you. So what you do with that power and what you bargain for is totally
up to you.
Much Love!
