BDSM

I think I speak for the majority when I say most people yearn to experience BDSM sex , It’s only natural to want to practice BDSM while pleasing that special someone you are having sex with.

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For those who don’t know what BDSM is, it’s a variety of practices and expressions, both erotic and non-erotic, involving restraint, sensory stimulation, role-playing, etc. for instance: hand cuffing, duct tape over the mouth, tying , spanking, leashing, whipping, etc. Partners can switch roles, first there’s a “Dominant” – partner who carries out the activity, then there’s a “Submissive” – partner who receives activity. If you read “50 Shades of Grey” you would know what I’m talking about.

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BDSM sex can be achieved, in my eyes there are different methods that can help you reach your goal. One method is trial and error. Yes you have to do something wrong in order to know not to do it again. A great way to find out is to have exploratory BDSM sex with your partner. Try a position, toy, restrainer or a specific spot and communicate with your partner while you are performing the act. See if he or she likes it. What can be done better? Find out as much as possible about your partner and what they like and when the time comes to have BDSM sex you have a full understanding and can be ready to please your partner.

Another method that is widely popular to use is the fantasy method. Create the fantasy from the role playing to the atmosphere. Communicate with your partner to see what they want to do for their fantasy and if you are comfortable with the demand make sure you go all out. Be very detail oriented and don’t hold nothing back. Really get into the role and watch how your partner will enjoy every minute of it and in return make it more pleasurable for you!

Last  but not least, BE IN LOVE & IN TUNE with your partner. When you truly love your partner and deeply connected, the BDSM sex will be the most intense experience of your lives... The raw passion for each other will translate into the bedroom and all the kissing, cuddling, sucking, and grabbing will be so much more intense. Just let the love and passion explode into an intense raw love making session.

Remember to create a comfortable environment and set the mood right for the occasion, if you try these things I mentioned above I promise you will experience the greatest sex of your life.

Happy Fucking!!