PROJECT BDSM - first timer (part 1)

Lately BDSM is all I have been thinking about , I even mentioned this to my twitter followers the other day, its safe to say I'm obsessed with the idea, the more I read about it, the more I want to do it. Today is Friday 29 March 2013, I woke up around 4am and decided to do more research on the subject. My boyfriend is away, I saw him briefly yesterday before he left, he tried to have a quickie sex but I refused. He seemed very confused because I never say no to sex, EVER! What he doesn't realize is, the next time we have sex he's in for the best ride of his life, its gonna bring a whole new dimension to our sex life, which for the record is already explosive but what I have in mind is gonna literally blow him away. LOL

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and sex is great. he has always given me the freedom to explore my fantasies by pushing boundaries little by little and which by the way is the greatest gift your partner could ever give to you. I've become more sexual and I love it. what I didn't realize all along is we have been actually practising "soft" BDSM. Sometimes he would let me take control and I would tell him what to do, or if I want something just as often I initiate sex I would fuck him so hard while telling him what I want until he promises to give it to me, so basically I've been using sex to get what I want, (sounds dirty doesn't it?) *chuckle* I think its our dirty little game we like to play and it turns both of us ON.

So, my "Sub" or rather "my slave boy" is coming back on Sunday, (Sub in short for Submissive) its a pity I don't have enough time to get all my toys together, Like proper handcuffs, whip, nipple clamps, duct tape, etc. However I have been looking around the house for some things I could use for my project, there's plenty of options, I found some old thin  soft leather belts for whipping, blind folds for when I had trouble sleeping, scarves for cuffing, straps for tying to the chair, a wooden spatula for slight spanking, wooden pegs for nipple clamping, some vodka, weed, body chocolate and whipped cream can, the whole shebang. *rubs hands together* I cant wait, I 'm already having the scenarios played out in my head. Did I mention I bought a little outfit for the occasion, Lol
I have already started teasing him, you know to prepare him mentally, I think it's the most important thing to do, as foodies would say I'm giving him a "palate cleanser" which is defined as "sense of taste, intellectual or aesthetic taste" it simply means mental appreciation or mental stimulation.
First this morning I sent him a formal dinner invitation, candlelit and wine and shit, he's probably wondering whats going on but he accepted. secondly I sent him this photo

quality is terrible, but you get the idea neh :-) LOL

He is chuffed, see he already knows whats gonna happen but he doesn't realize the severity of it. perfect!

I will post part two after Sunday, to let you guys know how it went
Happy Fucking !!