How to please your man ....ladies

These are the simple moves that can turn on your man

When Men say 'any sex is good sex' and they're not entirely kidding. They're biologically designed to be satisfied in bed more quickly and easily than us women. But when stimulated, almost every man will admit that sometimes sex is better than good. Certain sex moves drive them crazy in the best possible way. Women who know these moves hold the kind of power over men. And you don't have to be physically fit to perfect them. In fact, they're ridiculously easy to learn. Some moves are guaranteed to thrill him and make him eager to please you in return. I have tried them and I can attest to that.

Men love it when a woman plays with herself, you must move in a way that is specifically intended to excite him, Men are erotic visualists, more intensely aroused by visual stimulation than us women. Some men say that watching a woman climax is the ultimate form of arousal for them. I usually touch myself discreetly during sex to facilitate orgasm. Few women realize they can use this little move with a theatrical flourish to arouse their men. Next time you're ready to make love and he isn't turned on yet, put on sexy lingerie and nothing else (except maybe a pair of heels) and pose in a provocative position, with your back against the wall or table or anything, slightly open your legs, bend over and put two fingers in your vagina from behind and straddle your clitoris. This will certainly give him a hard on

Men also love to be stroked, fondled and handled with authority by female hands and they love watching a woman take manual erotic control of them. Rub a small amount of lube onto your palms and put one hand firmly around the base of his penis. Work the other hand from the base up to the head in a circular, twisting motion, Caress the head with your palm. Then start at the bottom again if he's sensitive around his perineum (the space between his testicles and anus), adjust the hand gripping the base of his penis so you're free to massage the perineum with a finger or your thumb. Or pay attention to his testicles if he likes that. 

Another technique that never fails to please is BLOW fuckin JOB, He'll be eternally grateful for this one. Stroke his penis as I explained above until he's close to orgasm. Then gradually draw him in your mouth, as much of him as you can comfortably handle, keeping a hand firmly around the rest, use your thumb and forefinger to form a ring and place this ring around your mouth. Move your tongue around the shaft. Pull in your cheeks to create suction. Open your mouth to release the suction, but keep the tip of your tongue moving around. With the palm of one hand or your thumb massage his perineum.

Okay ladies these are just basics, I have lots more to share, until then..........
HAPPY FUCKING !!!!

SEX...the curse of humankind

If you follow this path, be prepared on your way to re-awakening passion to pass through a land called Obsession. Be aware that most people never make it out the other side. Sex, which will feel like the answer to your loneliness and deadness, will turn out to reinforce those feelings. You will come to feel more alive when thinking about or engaged in sex than at almost any other time. When you do experience sex, you may come closer to another human being than you can ever thought you would. Sensing the safety to do so, you will begin to care deeply, and to feel all the joy and pleasure and every other feeling that has been trapped inside of you for so long, including all the fear you have never been safe enough to feel. And so the closer you get, the more scared you will feel. And you will find ways to withdraw, and you will begin to believe that it is not safe and that you are just as alone as you have always felt. You will come to blame your partner or yourself for the inadequacy and for the inability of sex to make you back into the great, vulnerable, courageous, and free being you were born to be. But because some taste, some glimpse is available through sex, you will be driven to seek it out as the solution to your life-sized dilemma. If you escape the self-condemnation of sexual repression, you will desperately search for new kinds of sexual contact, real or imagined, to make you feel whole or to make you feel anything at all. But no matter how much sex you encounter, it will not be enough to fill your enormous need to love and be close and express your passion and delight in your senses and feel life force coursing through your muscles and your skin. All sexual desire will become tainted with your desperation. Passion and desperation will begin to seem one and the same.
You will be Obsessed.

Fucking OOMF

I've been chatting with this guy on Twitter a lot recently. I tend to be constantly horny so my online chats with him are almost always to do with sex. He is 28 and a Civil Engineer here in Durban, I never usually go for Twitter guys but this one is very hot, filthy and persistent and he turned me on to be honest. Whenever I was online there he was in my DM, He was desperate to come to my flat and kept on telling me he 'loved me' and how he wanted to rip my clothes off, spank my bare ass and "lick my pussy for hours". I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little bit curious to have a total stranger lick my pussy. Just for fun I eventually agreed for him to visit my flat. This was all a bit risky as we've never met before and my boyfriend has a spare key to the flat but I really didn't care, I was just gagging for some wild fun, with someone different.

He was due to arrive at 6:30 pm, So I had time for a long hot bath and a glass of wine, I expected a text any minute so I put on my favorite dress and high heels, he sent a DM saying “I’m outside”, I took my time straightening myself up in front of a mirror, then I went downstairs, he’s quite shorter then I imagined, but his face is cute with full scrumptious lips which I like. So I opened the gate, turned around and led him to my flat, before I could even speak, he stepped forward and kissed me in my hallway, slamming my door shut, I tightly held onto him in disbelief, as soon as I found my breathe, all I managed to say was "Uuhmm, wow...you don’t waste time do you?!!" he smiled shyly and apologized, as he handed me a bottle of Skyy vodka and Cranberry juice he brought for me.

 I went to the kitchen to fix us some drinks, I returned and he was just staring at me, I stared back looking down at the obvious bulge in his chino trousers, I led him to the couch, motioned him to sit and I sat down next to him, things were a bit awkward for a couple of minutes because I didn't know how to start a conversation, all I wanted was to fuck. It’s like he was reading my mind because he leaned over to me and started kissing my face all over and squeezing my breasts with one hand, his kisses were quick and fast, like he was under pressure, he took my glass from my hands and placed it on the coffee table, he then resumed kissing me I felt both of his hands now fondling my breasts. At this point I was becoming moist and was now so aroused I was going to let this happen, I knew it was so wrong but it turned me on to have a stranger 'in control' of the situation.

He stood up and pulled me with him, he began slowly peeling off my dress and my bra, he pulled his head back slightly to watch as the dress drop to the floor, he just stopped and stared for a moment, his eyes focusing on my pussy, by now I was soaking wet, “let’s go to bed”  I whispered while kicking off my dress with my left high heel, I led the way, I could feel his eyes following me  around then he followed me to the bedroom, he stripped off all his clothes, I laid on my back my body language screaming “Lick me now!!" he leaned over both his hands started squeezing my breasts, his mouth all over my body,  I then felt his tongue moving up and down on my wet clit, It felt so amazing, I rolled my hips and pressed my pussy even towards his face, he responded by circling my pussy with his tongue, I was in heaven it felt so good, I was at this point so close to orgasm and he needed to know it, "that's it now right fucking there! Faster! Oh god! I'm cumming for you now!!!!" I screamed as I came, my juices flowed. My legs were like jelly.

"oh my god" I muttered as I felt both his hands part my ass cheeks and something warm entered deep inside my asshole, it was his tongue and it felt amazing, I’ve never had a guy lick my asshole before, it was a thrill, I let out a loud moan as his hot tongue circled my asshole and 2 of his fingers entered my wet pussy at the same time, my hips moved in rhythm with his fingers. I felt the sensation building when he picked up the pace and fingered me faster, "oh god, oh yes, YES I'm cumming again!!!!" I screamed during an absolutely amazing orgasm, my legs were shaking and my body tingled all over. I glanced down at him and could see his face was still buried deep between my thighs.

I turned my head round and could see him stand up, revealing his fully erect cock. Just as I was about to get up and on my knees to suck his cock he quickly and firmly grabbed hold of my hips, rip open a condom he took out of his pants, he quickly rolled it down his fully erect penis and guided it towards my pussy, We both gave out a moan of sheer pleasure when he forcefully sunk his cock deep inside my soaking wet pussy, “the look of love” by Kenny G continued playing on repeat in the background as he tightly gripped hold of my hips and began pumping away, "Oh god yes! Yes fuck me harder!!" I demanded of him, He responded as well, He was stronger than he looked and began thrusting into me much harder than before, it felt so good, he moved both his hands from my hips and began squeezing my soft breasts, "Oh yes!! Oh god! I love it!!" He murmured as he continued pounding me, He was so hard and so deep that his balls were slapping against me, His thrusts were driving me to an even greater and longer orgasm, I moaned and moaned uncontrollably. "I’m cumming! I'm cumming! I'm cumming of fuck yeah I’m cumming” I remember my mouth screaming without any instruction from me, he continued pumping away until he also let out a loud pleasure filled cry "OH FFFUUUUCK!!!", I could feel my body tingle all over as he shot a load of  his cum in the condom hot against my pussy.

He then slowly pulled out his cock, condom full with his creamy cum, I turned around and giggled as he shuffled over to go to the bathroom to clean up, he came back and He lay back on my bed with a big smile on his face. He was staring at my naked body, "You are beautiful Mbali" he said whilst kissing me on the cheek.

I responded by squeezing both of my breasts together and smiling at him. We talked about stuff, after like 20 minutes I started playing with his now fully erect penis. I shifted my body to the edge of the bed and pulled him to sit on the edge, At that point I slowly stood up and  I got down on my knees just in front of him, "you know what Mr" I said as I looked into his eyes, "God you are so cute!!" I said as I grabbed his face and pulled him towards mine, passionately kissing his lips, his face was still wet and I could taste my cum on him, this only served to turn me on even more, I then grabbed his erect penis, I was hungry for it and desperate to have it down my throat. I quickly moved my head down and took all inches of his cock down my throat; I closed my mouth around his cock and let out a moan at the taste of it. I began sucking, hard, relishing the salty pre cum, I sucked it as far down my throat as I could and got faster and faster, I could hear him moan with pleasure the faster I went, up and down, faster still, "Oh yes it feels amazing! Faster YES!” he continued moaning "Yes, oh yes I love you!! Oh! Oh! Oh! Oooooooh! Mbali I'm going to cum now Mbali!!!!" Still on my knees I removed his cock from my mouth I shook his cock in jerk off motion then I felt a wave after wave of his hot cum squirt on my face, I continued jerking him off until the very last drop of his cum, "Ooooh my god, that was so fucking good” he said

“That was so good" he muttered to himself as he run his fingers through my dreadlocks, I just remained in the same position, my jaw fucking exhausted, he was staring at my face which was covered in his cum, it was almost as if he was proud of the amount of cum he'd sprayed all over my face, it was dripping off me. He lay back on the bed smiling.

After several more hours lying in bed beside him, I told him to leave. Still naked, I sat back on the bed; my legs were wide open, watching him quickly putting all his clothes back on. He looked up and stared between my legs, I got the impression he was trying to take it all in, and maybe he didn't expect to see me again.

He needn't have worried, 'we are going to be fuck buddies from now on' I thought to myself, he practically begged me for my phone number or BBM pin at least, I gave it to him he kissed me one last time and he left.

He bought me flowers :-)

Sex after BDSM

Today is Tuesday, we haven’t seen each other since our dirty little act on Sunday, but we've been constantly on the phone, texting and calling each other for the past 24hrs. He kept telling me how happy I have made him feel. It’s a very fulfilling feeling hearing someone say those words. I think that’s what love is about.

“How are you doing today honey?” I can hear him calling from the kitchen as he puts down dinner he bought on the way over, as I place my laptop on the coffee table, I turn around and I’m rewarded with a sight of him holding a bunch flowers. He took my breath away. “Hello my love” he said, His voice spurs me to affection, I stood up and hurry over to him, he embraces me and give me a soft kiss “how was your day?” he asked, “not too bad baby”, he hands me the flowers, “I saw them and I thought of you and the way you make me happy”. I gasped; this is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. I know he can be romantic if he wants; it just takes a right kind of encouragement for him to show it.

I drop the flowers on the dining table and quickly kiss him while unbuttoning his shirt with my left hand, I unbuckle and unzip his pants with my right hand, and He takes off my t-shirt and skirt  and throws onto the floor and kicks it away. I command him to sit on the couch; I stand in front of him, I drop to his lap and start kissing him forcefully as my hands roam his back, then I grab his firm dick so hard that he gasps.  I pull his mouth to me while grinding my hips against him, he starts running his hands though my hair as he fucks my mouth with his tongue, tasting me, biting me, there’s nothing I want more now than feeling his dick inside my hot wet pussy. I let go of his dick and I spread my legs wider and he quickly shove his dick in, I screamed I spread my legs further so I can feel his cock filling up my pussy. It was hot, we just let it sit inside while kissing and nibbling each other, no one moves as yet, and the stillness of a hot hard cock inside me makes me cum immediately. The release of my hot fluids drives him mad, he quickly grabs my ankles, position me in squat, he grabs my butt cheeks and start moving me in and out of his dick, he rolls his hips to meet me midair, its fuckin amazing, I feel another wave coming, I fuck him faster, every nerve in my body scream with pleasure I lose control and cum on him. He groans

He presses his body harder against me, almost crushing me, sliding his cock in and out of my hot wet pussy, he licks my ear, gripping my earlobe with his lips and tugging on it, he runs the tip of his tongue lightly and wetly along the edge, I moan with pleasure. Suddenly he pulls his dick out, shift his body over, I remain in same squatting position, he shoves his dick from behind immediately hitting the g-spot, I lose control and scream loudly “oh baby!” I hold on tightly to the couch and cum. He runs his hot tongue along my spine, a shiver seizes my entire body when I feel his warmth, I groan loudly, arching my back and squirming about as he grabs my hips and hold them still. Jesus Christ I feel another one coming. He senses how my body tenses and start fucking faster, throwing my ass up and catching me with his dick, I feel like I’m going to squirt “fuck yes, its fuckin good baby!, don’t  fuckin stop ” I scream. This time my whole body tenses in anticipation of a blessed orgasm, I felt his dick getting stiffer and stiffer inside my pussy, I knew he’s about to cum, I yell “cum baby”, he says “I’m cumming baby”, I yell “cum dammit.....oooooooo yesssss fuck me, cum baby”, I was well on my own climax when he screamed “yes baby.....!” he held me tight and exploded into my pussy, I felt a huge super hot cum filling my pussy. I loved it, it felt so incredible. 

We collapsed on the couch and slided off to the cold wooden floors, we just lay there on our sweaty slimy mess for about an hour, panting, kissing and stroking each other

PROJECT BDSM - first timer (part 3)

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He doesn’t have a say from now on. Slowly I started stripping my clothes off one by one until I was completely naked, he watched in anticipation, he was about to burst out in flames with desire. ...........

I told him we are going to take turns in playing the game, but first I’m going to take charge so he can learn the ropes, he agreed. I told him Im gonna have to tie him up; he hesitated for a moment then agreed. I was over the moon with excitement; so far everything was going as planned.

He voluntarily sat himself on the chair, first I blindfolded him so I can be able to work precisely without his prying eyes, I then took out two cotton scarves, I tied his hands tightly together on his back, and then secured him by tying him against the chair with a thick elastic belt. I made sure to ask him if it wasn't too tight he said no. He was now tied securely, My inner whore started to crawl out of the closet to play; I was feeling hot as fuck, still naked, my pussy dripping wet and very hot. I left him there hard naked, blindfolded and tied to the chair

I slipped into my little outfit, tied my hair up and sprayed on some perfume and put on a red lipstick. I took out my leather belts, I put on some slow music and switched off the lights, the only beam of light in the room was coming from the bathroom at the far right corner of the house, He wasn't aware of what was going on around him.

 I poured four vodka shots; I had two and fed the rest to him. I took out the blindfold, his jaw dropped, his eyes obviously admiring what was in front of him, I was standing there with nothing on but a see-through lingerie, belts on my hand, he was rather amused. I saw his dick swell again and taking shape right before my eyes. He asked if I’m going to whip him with those, pointing to the belts on my hand with his head, I said “not if you are a good slave boy” he chuckled, I yelled “shut up slave boy!” hitting him with a soft leather belt on his shoulders, I must say, I really surprised myself with my tone and aggressiveness. I repeated “shut the fuck up, you will not speak unless spoken to slave boy, do you undestand?!”, he said okay. I yelled “say yes m’aam!” He just blank starred, he said yes m’aam.  He didn't move. he was fuckin terrified 

I started pacing around him like Halle Berry in Catwoman. I was now in character and enjoying every second of it. I took out another scarve from the bag of tricks and tied his ankles together, he said nothing. He watched my each and every move. I pulled another chair and sat in front of him, with my legs wide apart so he can have full view of my dripping wet pussy, I lit a cigarette and scanned his facial reaction carefully, he gasped but said nothing, I know he’s against smoking but I was daring him to say something, still he said nothing. I took few more puffs and blew the smoke in his face, he didn't say anything. Then I thought, let me push his buttons some more, I made him take a puff, surprisingly he obeyed.

I stood up, put the cigarette out. I started pacing around him again;

Faint light flickered around him as I paced around him, his cock was fully aroused.  I stood in front of him His face confronting with my pussy, I stuck my finger in my wet pussy and made him sniff, His lower lip trembled, I dipped my fingers in my pussy again and made him taste the juices, he swallowed the lump in his throat and I felt a sign of budding frustration in the depths of his abdomen.  He licked his lips.

I whispered in his ear "when I’m done with you I want you to fuck my pussy hard.” he said “yes m’aam”, I said “good boy, this could be all yours if you behave”, he said “yes m’aam”

I leaned down and kissed his lips; his tongue sought mine and they danced a slow tease of seduction. I pulled and twisted his nipple with my thumb and forefingers, I then moved my mouth further down to his belly and down to his fully aroused cock, I knelt down before him and examined his cock. “this is a big hard cock, and it’s all mine and mine alone” I hissed, "do you understand?" he said "yes m'aam", I started teasing his dick head with my tongue while dangling his balls with my thumbs. I knew what he needed, I began to suck, bite and tease the tip of his dick with my tongue,
His muscles tightened beneath my touch, the frustration got the better of him, he struggled to free himself, totally forgetting his role in this game. Quickly I stopped pulled out my belt and whipped him twice on the thighs, he growled in mixture of pain and desire. I could see how much his cock ached, ached to be smothered with my hot wet pussy. I asked him what he wants; He told me how he wanted to make me cum. I grinned and rose to my feet

He watched me as I walk around him. Knowing that he desires nothing more than to suck and drink the fluids boiling up in my pussy. His watchful gaze was both comforting and nerve-wracking. He took a deep breath and begged me to free him, “I’m not done yet” I told him

Again I sat on the chair opposite him, carefully opened my legs wide open and started fingering myself, I stuck my two fingers in and out of my pussy and rubbed the bean with the other hand, I gasped with pure pleasure, more so because he was watching, he starred in disbelief, gasping and cussing under his breath.  I looked up into his eyes and grinned. I moaned, while maintaining eye contact with him, watching his face while feeling the hot wetness of my pussy , he groaned, I moaned, he groaned, I moaned louder and louder ....until I came in my fingers. He cussed and shifted uncomfortably on his chair, dying to break free. I liked each and every moment of his torture. I leaned over and made him lick off my cum on my fingers, he obeyed.

I then rose up and sat on his hard dick, it just slided with ease into my pussy, he purred, I fucked him nice and slow, up and down, in and out his dick slide in my pussy, I came hott  on him , he went crazy. He wanted to touch me but he couldn’t, he wanted to increase the pace but couldn’t, he wanted to fuck me but he couldn’t. This frustrated him until he exploded, his cum shot up my pussy, I lifted myself from his dick and our cum cocktail dripped on his lap. I licked it off He groaned

He was panting like a dog, I leaned on his ear and whispered “good boy, now I’m going to un-tie you, I want you to fuck me like a whore” I bent over before him and untied his ankles, then his hands... it was like freeing a wild animal that has been caged for years, he stretched his long lean body then he grabbed me by the arm, led me into the bedroom and threw me on the bed, he leaned on me and kissed me passionately while sticking his fingers in my hot cum filled wet pussy, he grabbed both my ankles into the air and went down on my pussy, licking and nibbling my clit, I screamed with pleasure. His dick was now rock hard, he rolled my ass over positioning me in doggy style, I hissed “give it to me baby, I want you inside me right now”, He rubbed his cock on my clit from behind, finally he couldn’t hold back any longer, he shoved his cock in my soaking wet pussy with vengeance, I couldn’t help but scream! “Oh fuck baby”, he shoved his cock harder this time, spanking me like a whore, I loved it. He pounded me harder and harder each time that I came so hard on his cock, he groaned with pleasure of my hot creamy fluids on his cock, this encouraged him to fuck like a maniac, thrustingdeep into me with a pace so fast and a force so strong that his grip around my waist tightened extensively, his finger were digging deep into my skin, in agony I cried tears of pain and pleasure. It felt like I had one leg in heaven and one leg in hell. He yelled “that’s it baby, I’m cumming! I’m cumming! that’s it !... fuck yeah I’m cumming Oh “, he exploded inside me , both our fluids released at the same time. He collapsed on top of me and squeezed my back. He rolled me over and wiped tears in my eyes kissed me all over my face and said “thank you my baby, you are amazing, I love you so much”

PROJECT BDSM - first timer (part 2)

The day

Finally ‘the day’ arrived, the much anticipated day, Sunday, bright beautiful blue sky, the sun cracking through the deep blue sea’s of Durban. 

View from his apartment

Yes I spent a night at his apartment in Durban North. Even though he wasn't there I just wanted to feel close to him, smell him, to almost taste him and almost touch him. The whole apartment smelt of his perfume, his jeans and other clothes hung from hangers and from the back of chair smelt of him.  The night before I had opened a bottle of wine, watched some movies and slumbered on his bed immersed in his scent, I missed him so so dearly.

That morning I took a quick shower and made myself some breakfast before rushing off to my flat to prepare for the night. I got to my house around 10:30am. Marinated some meat and prepared some dessert for dinner later. I was finished when I received a call from one of my friends who’s in town, she invited me for Picnic and a swim in Brighton Beach, I thought why not, I probably need some cleansing before I commit a sin right?? But I had to be back in the house by at least 15: 00. So off we went, it was a beautiful beach day well spent with friends.

He arrived at my flat around 17:30, this time I was already buzzed from the glass of wine I had just half an hour ago, He had text-ed me on his way over, it felt like a lifetime ago because from that time until now I have had a heated debate in my head whether or not to go ahead with the idea. He opened the door and he knew already something was up with me because I couldn't look him in the eye; he brought me a box of chocolates and two bottles of wine, red and white. I thanked him; he swept me into his arms and gave me a perk on the cheek. I almost exploded with desire. Goddamn I love this man but all I could think about right now is to torture him and fuck him to death. Since when did I become a sadist? Heaven I need to be rescued from myself very badly

He waited as long as he dared to ask what’s going on. Silence.  He asked me what I got up to in the weekend. Silence. His eyes casually fell into the chair in the middle of the lounge. His attention, though, suddenly returned to me. He gave me a questioning look and frowned, as quick as lightning I got on my feet and waltzed into the kitchen to get on with dinner, he followed me. I could swear he’s already put two and two together, he’s a smart guy I’m sure he’s already figured it out. Oh my God, my heart was pounding in my chest, suddenly I was thinking of backing down because fear was winning me over, I took a sip of wine then I felt two big hands holding me from behind, pressing me against the kitchen counter, he planted a slight kiss on the back of my neck, I moaned. I closed my eyes and felt his dick poking me, he is horny, good. Suddenly I felt like I’m in control once again. I regained my composure, pushed him away and told him sternly that I’m going to run him a hot bubbly bath. I left the room and he followed me, he asked if I’m going to join him I said no, he seemed very confused with my behavior, I hissed under my breath  “I’m just following the rules baby, I’m just following the rules”. I went to the kitchen and prepared dinner while he bathed.

When he finished bathing, dinner was laid out for him on the table, we ate in silence. The only sound in the room was fork and knife clicking against the plates; I could almost hear cricket sounds. I could almost sense his frustrations from across the table. He couldn't take his eyes off me, watching my each and every move, probably thinking 'what the fuck is wrong with you today?' it was fuckin awkward. He poured some more wine for us and purposely brushed his hand against mine, I quickly retrached my hand and thought to myself “no fuckin touching busta”, we finished eating and I cleared the plates and straightened the table, it was the most awkward dinner we've ever had. We often have awkward dinners when we are mad at each other but this one definitely take the cake, the sexual tension was so intense. We sat on the couch and watched TV. He didn't even know whether to touch me or not because he couldn't figure out what was going through my mind. Finally he broke the ice by commenting about what was playing on TV and I cracked with laughter, he saw this as an opportunity to come closer to me and hold me into his arms. My body was rigid but I finally gave in, I just melted on his arms, we kissed passionately, he carefully took my glass and placed it on the coffee table, we kissed for like another  minute or two, I started undressing him, he obliged, he tried to do the same but I kept his hands away, I thought fuck yeah I’m in control now. This carried on until he was completely naked but I was still fully clothed. He tried his best to undress me but with no luck. He just sat there on my couch with his dick hard, confused and horny as fuck. I then got up and stood in front of him; he asked me what’s up, I put on a serious face and told him we’re about to play a very special game. it sounded more like an instruction .I made it clear that he doesn't have a say from now on. He said Okay, slowly I started stripping my clothes off one by one until I was completely naked, he watched in anticipation and hunger in his eyes, he was about to burst out in flames with desire. ........I smiled,.it was fun watching him in that state, horny and confused, the image will probably stay in my mind for as long as we are together, fuckin priceless,

To be continued.....

Stay tuned for part three.

PROJECT BDSM - first timer (part 1)

Lately BDSM is all I have been thinking about , I even mentioned this to my twitter followers the other day, its safe to say I'm obsessed with the idea, the more I read about it, the more I want to do it. Today is Friday 29 March 2013, I woke up around 4am and decided to do more research on the subject. My boyfriend is away, I saw him briefly yesterday before he left, he tried to have a quickie sex but I refused. He seemed very confused because I never say no to sex, EVER! What he doesn't realize is, the next time we have sex he's in for the best ride of his life, its gonna bring a whole new dimension to our sex life, which for the record is already explosive but what I have in mind is gonna literally blow him away. LOL

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and sex is great. he has always given me the freedom to explore my fantasies by pushing boundaries little by little and which by the way is the greatest gift your partner could ever give to you. I've become more sexual and I love it. what I didn't realize all along is we have been actually practising "soft" BDSM. Sometimes he would let me take control and I would tell him what to do, or if I want something just as often I initiate sex I would fuck him so hard while telling him what I want until he promises to give it to me, so basically I've been using sex to get what I want, (sounds dirty doesn't it?) *chuckle* I think its our dirty little game we like to play and it turns both of us ON.

So, my "Sub" or rather "my slave boy" is coming back on Sunday, (Sub in short for Submissive) its a pity I don't have enough time to get all my toys together, Like proper handcuffs, whip, nipple clamps, duct tape, etc. However I have been looking around the house for some things I could use for my project, there's plenty of options, I found some old thin  soft leather belts for whipping, blind folds for when I had trouble sleeping, scarves for cuffing, straps for tying to the chair, a wooden spatula for slight spanking, wooden pegs for nipple clamping, some vodka, weed, body chocolate and whipped cream can, the whole shebang. *rubs hands together* I cant wait, I 'm already having the scenarios played out in my head. Did I mention I bought a little outfit for the occasion, Lol
I have already started teasing him, you know to prepare him mentally, I think it's the most important thing to do, as foodies would say I'm giving him a "palate cleanser" which is defined as "sense of taste, intellectual or aesthetic taste" it simply means mental appreciation or mental stimulation.
First this morning I sent him a formal dinner invitation, candlelit and wine and shit, he's probably wondering whats going on but he accepted. secondly I sent him this photo

quality is terrible, but you get the idea neh :-) LOL

He is chuffed, see he already knows whats gonna happen but he doesn't realize the severity of it. perfect!

I will post part two after Sunday, to let you guys know how it went
Happy Fucking !!

 

A little note

I know most people imagine me to be this badass bitch that sleeps with around

Fact is I love sex,  and I love writing about my sexual experiences. I’m not a professional writer but I love writing and reading books a lot, This blog has become a place where I could shout from the rooftops that I’m having the best sex of my life, with no implications. I’m now more attentive and rousing during sex so when I start writing something I relive those moments, it fuels my writing and I can’t wait to have sex and write the next one. I am not ashamed about having and enjoying sex.

Last Saturday

This is a diary entry....

I had an exciting weekend with my boo, Durban weather was pretty sexy, slightly cold and drizzly, perfect for staying in and fuck the whole day. My boo wanted to come over Friday night, I had to say NO, I had tons of work to get through before Monday and I knew if he came over I wouldn't be able to get any work done. I told him to go spend time with the boys. So we agreed to see each other on Saturday, he was grumpy about it but I had to put my foot down. So I worked through the night and the rest of the morning, by 10am I was so exhausted I took a 3 hr nap. I woke up refreshed and energized. I text-ed him asking where he is, he text ed back saying he will pick me up at 14H00 so we can go watch the game together, yes the Soweto Derby. So I took a long bath and poured myself a glass of wine to help me relax. I dressed up and waited for him, 15mins later we were driving to a local pub to watch the game,  It was so exciting, more so because we support the same team. Alcohol was flowing and everyone was enjoying the game, we had a pretty good time.

By 18:30 we left the pub and headed to Durban North, on the way we got something to eat and a few bottles of wine, that time I was heavily buzzed. We got to his apartment and had our dinner, finished and put on a movie and  I rested my head on his lap, I was so bored, all I wanted was to fuck. Halfway through the movie, I started teasing him by spreading my legs wide and carefully took his hand and I put his finger in my pussy, I closed my eyes and moaned softly, I was wearing a dress so my thighs were in full view, he watched my each and every move, his dick grew bigger and bigger and bigger I knew he wanted me right there and then , Our eyes met, his eyes blazing with desire. He was enjoying it, I stopped what I was doing and I climbed on top of his lap kissing him right away and he quickly undressed me and unhooked my bra so to have access to my tits and hard little nipples. He grabbed and sucked my tits licking my nipples making my freshly shaved pussy drippin wet in an instant. He was feeling my waist and my hips with his rough hands. He then roughly pulled my panties to the side and quickly put his dick inside me, it was blazing hot. I held on the back of the couch and started fucking him roughly, he didn't stop caressing me and kissing me all over, suckling my nipples and giving me a little spank. He lifted me off his dick and carried me to the bedroom; he put me on the bed, ripped my panties off and spread my legs wide. That moment I wanted his dick inside my pussy so bad, my pussy was dripping wet and hot as fuck. He lay between my legs and started licking my shaved wet pussy, licking and sucking my clit making me moan loudly, as I moaned he pushed his fingers into my pussy and fucked my pussy hard with them while licking my clit making me shiver up in pleasure pushing my pussy into his mouth as I screamed and scratched his arms and back with my nails. I came hard against his mouth and was hardly able to catch my breath and letting out screams. 

As soon as he had finished and I caught my breath and regained my ability to move, all I could think about was returning the favor  He lay back next to me kissing me so I could taste my pussy in his mouth. I crawled down his body and grabbed his dick, rock hard ready for me. I allowed a little spit to cover it to make it nice and wet for me to slip down my throat and licked every inch of his hard cock teasing him and then swallowed his whole cock down to his balls and started sucking his cock hard, wrapping my lips around his cock tightly and sucking up and down his whole length jerking my head up and down on his cock, then licking the head quickly flicking my tongue over it, licking up every drop of pre-cum so I could taste him. He pulled me up at this point knowing he was near to cumming but wanting to do so in my pussy. 
He pushed me down on the bed and climbed on top of me roughly pulled my legs apart and on to his shoulders as he pushed his cock inside my pussy , he pumped his cock into my thick pussy watching my face in pleasure as I thrust back into him. After a few thrusts he had opened my pussy up and he fucked me hard and fast as I grabbed on his back moaning knowing I would cum straight away. He spread my legs wide in the air and pounded my pussy hard as I came screaming his name. As soon as I had cum he flipped me over so I was on all fours and fucked me with my ass in the air and my head down he was soon moaning at the view of my ass and pussy and came hard into my pussy. After that we fell asleep in each other’s arms.


After a few hours of sleep we woke up, I was sleeping in just his t-shirt with no underwear and he was naked still. After a long morning kiss, I worked my way down to his cock, it was pretty hard already. I licked and sucked his balls putting them into my mouth while stroking his cock with my tongue his cock hardened till it was rock hard I licked it up and down teasing him flicking my tongue over the head slowly then quickly then slowly again. I then wrapped my lips around his cock tightly and started sucking it up and down jerking my head up and down , He grabbed my one hand and put it on my clit growling at me to play with myself as I sucked him. I did as he said and played with my wet clit as I sucked his long cock feeling it hit the back of my throat he growled he was going to cum, I held his cock with my hand and directed his cock at my open mouth and he shot his cum into my mouth as I licked the head of his cock licking every drop of cum up and swallowing it all. 
I then collapsed beside him and he was still shaking with pleasure, he held me so tight nearly crushing me. He kissed me and we fell asleep again. We woke up around 10am, took a quick shower and went out for breakfast.

get to know me better

I love cooking, I cook for myself and my boyfriend. He loves my cooking, he cant go a day without. Sometimes I invite friends over for a dinner party, we have good times. below is my conservative little flat where I share memories with people I love.

  

This is my small conservative flat. its nothing much but I enjoy spending time alone here.

I like TV 

When I'm bored, I play my son's PlayStation

I absolutely love reading, Its one of my fav things in the world

one of many diners

I eat healthy whenever I can

my special beef curry my bf loves so much

I stock Booze :-) whenever I can

I eat health, well Sometimes

I love hosting the ladies, I love cooking , preparing cocktails and sharing a fine bottle of wine with friends, this is one of many dinner parties I have hosted in my house. from left - Busi, Myself, Thembelihle and Lungi. 

aftermath 

Lee & Myself - Manchester United game in Moses Mabhida stadium  Durban (2012)

at work 

my big forehead, LOL

Friends Forever

I have a hard time with friendships. To be honest it's not the friendships that scare me it's the letting people into my life that freaks me out. I’m a very private person; I like to keep my personal struggles to myself. I've always been a shy girl; I’m not a good talker. You can say I’m a loner, I like my own space, I like being on my own with my own thoughts. I know it sounds creepy. The friends I keep close to my heart are ones that have gone through the hardships with me, the ones I don't have to talk to everyday or every week...even monthly for that matter. But when we do talk it's like no time has passed. The friendship I have with Busi is a very special one, which was thankfully formed through Facebook. She's the friend that you know no matter what she'll be there for you in an instant. She's the one you want to tell your deepest secrets or your embarrassing moments just so she'll make fun of you. ....but it's that kind of friendship that only the two of us can understand.

Busi

Me and Busi

BDSM

I think I speak for the majority when I say most people yearn to experience BDSM sex , It’s only natural to want to practice BDSM while pleasing that special someone you are having sex with.

submissive 

For those who don’t know what BDSM is, it’s a variety of practices and expressions, both erotic and non-erotic, involving restraint, sensory stimulation, role-playing, etc. for instance: hand cuffing, duct tape over the mouth, tying , spanking, leashing, whipping, etc. Partners can switch roles, first there’s a “Dominant” – partner who carries out the activity, then there’s a “Submissive” – partner who receives activity. If you read “50 Shades of Grey” you would know what I’m talking about.

some of the toys you might use, found in adult shops

BDSM sex can be achieved, in my eyes there are different methods that can help you reach your goal. One method is trial and error. Yes you have to do something wrong in order to know not to do it again. A great way to find out is to have exploratory BDSM sex with your partner. Try a position, toy, restrainer or a specific spot and communicate with your partner while you are performing the act. See if he or she likes it. What can be done better? Find out as much as possible about your partner and what they like and when the time comes to have BDSM sex you have a full understanding and can be ready to please your partner.

Another method that is widely popular to use is the fantasy method. Create the fantasy from the role playing to the atmosphere. Communicate with your partner to see what they want to do for their fantasy and if you are comfortable with the demand make sure you go all out. Be very detail oriented and don’t hold nothing back. Really get into the role and watch how your partner will enjoy every minute of it and in return make it more pleasurable for you!

Last  but not least, BE IN LOVE & IN TUNE with your partner. When you truly love your partner and deeply connected, the BDSM sex will be the most intense experience of your lives... The raw passion for each other will translate into the bedroom and all the kissing, cuddling, sucking, and grabbing will be so much more intense. Just let the love and passion explode into an intense raw love making session.

Remember to create a comfortable environment and set the mood right for the occasion, if you try these things I mentioned above I promise you will experience the greatest sex of your life.

Happy Fucking!!

This shit life

At times, this world is so crooked and unfair to those who stay loyal to it because it never produces positive results. If you are decent to it, it plays you, If you do your own thing and mess around with it, it adores you, opens up and gives you all that is due to you. 
Anyway, at the end of it all, God knows why things work out the way they do, so I guess I will leave it up to the man upstairs to decide for me. they say, life is a game and you play to win, if you break the rules you get a yellow card but they should rather say, life is a road and you travel to get there, if you sleep on the way, you will miss your stop.

fuckin Awesome

Morning Glory

This is a diary entry....

Early morning sex is the best; I don’t care what you say

He was working late last night, I knew he was gonna come by my place when he knocks off work, it’s usually around 23:00. He uses his own set of keys to get in my house. I was already sleeping then.

4:00 am, my alarm went off, I snoozed. I heard him snoring softly beside me, I snoozed anyway. A while later I woke with his hand in my pajama pants, sneaking his fingers into my pussy and smoothing the bean, his other hand over the edge of  my pants, trying to pull them down without waking me up, He pushed and pushed and pushed my pants down until they were around my ankles, then with a foot he kicked them  into the crease of the sheets at the foot of the bed.

I was still half asleep, rolling my head away from the morning light beaming through the windows. I liked feeling as though I was still dreaming. Slowly, more slowly than usual, he worked his fingers in and out of my pussy, I purred like a cat, he planted a kiss at the back of my neck, I purred some more, so wet and feeling the good feelings of his fingers adoring your pussy. I lay there, with my eyes closed, my lips smiling, my legs spread wide, and my head nestled into the pillow. With his other hand he pushed my top up, exposing my hard nipples; quickly he warmed them with his tongue. Then he bit me and I cried out loud, from then I was fully awake. His bite softened and slowly he tugged on me with his teeth and I finally orgasmed around his fingers.

He then crawled under the covers and licked through my pussy juices, thoroughly flicking my bean with his tongue, my legs closed around his shoulders. Again I came. He then pushed his dick into me and pressed his weight against me, holding me, our thrusts met each other as I rolled my hips up to meet his. He thrust deep into me at an angle that teased my clit with every movement. He made love to me, sweet and slow for a couple more minutes,  then he knew I was ready to cum and he was ready to feel me clench and spasm around him, he murmured something and quickened his pace, I came first,  he held me tight , exploded and melted in my arms. We lay together for a few minutes, I felt like I was gonna faint. A few moments later I got up to get ready for work, when I came back he was in deep sleep, I kissed him and left for work.

Fantasies about #OOMF

I have fantasies about #OOMF. Mostly about having him fuck me unconscious.. I don’t think about it that often, but when I do I have a full-blown vision, down to the details of the room where it would happen – the hotel room, the bed covers and the shit.  It’s an overstated dream I know. I haven’t done it; I haven’t fucked a total stranger. But for once, at least, I want to do it. 

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I had a dream last night, #OOMF was in my hotel room,.

I opened the door; the first thing I noticed about him is his eyes, his gentle kind eyes smiling at me. He is beautiful. We greeted each other, this is not a social visit, we are not here to get to know each other, we are not here to develop some kind of a relationship, WE ARE HERE TO FUCK!!, that's the deal,  he walked in and sat on the armchair beside the bed, I walked up to him and sat on his lap, I couldn't wait to get started, I leaned on him and kissed him, he kissed me back, he is a good kisser, he cupped my breasts, then he removed my top, I removed his shirt, carefully scanning his strappy shoulders, #OOMF is beautiful. I started stripping off the rest of my clothes, I'm a little bit tipsy, I have no shame.  he watched me intensely, I then untied his belt and took off his pants and underwear, and I kissed him gently on the mouth, we kissed for like another few minutes, then I kneeled before him, he breathed heavily because he knew what I was about to do to him,

 I grabbed his dick, my fingers curled around it, I started shaking it in a jerk off motion, then I went down on it, I carefully ran my tongue on the tip offering a pleasant hum creating the vibrations. I coated my saliva all around his cock and I tightened my lips around it, I pushed it down my throat, further down...And down...I started moving mouth on his dick up and down my throat, while stroking with my tongue and up and down my throat, I gagged, I pulled it out and put it back in, I sucked it like my life dependent on it, this carried on for a few more minutes, then suddenly  he pulled me off by the hair, avoiding to cum I think…

That moment he got up and pushed me against a wall, holds my hips, grinds his hard dick into me and fucking my mouth with his tongue. He slides his hand between my legs, and into my wet and aching pussy. Another hand is stroking my breast, fingering my nipple. I’m lost in the feelings, my cunt juices dripping from his fingers, wetting my thighs, I want more. He pushes me to the bed; His forearm across my hips holds me against the mattress. His tongue finds my clit, the fingers of his other hand slip inside. He sucks my clit until I’m woozy, until my body want to give way. The goose bumps cover my skin. I can’t think. I can only feel. I feel him everywhere, inside me, over my skin, in my head. His desire and mine are powerful together, and my body and my will are mixed up

Slowly, he picked me up and put me on the edge of the bed, he opens my legs wide, slick and steady he pushes his cock into me, watching my pussy flutter open as he does, stroking into me as I pulse around him. I’m shocked at how wet and open I am how desperately I want what he’s offering. The tension is no longer capable of holding my wetness back, the juices trickle from my pussy as his dick press deeper. I clenched around him as he pushes me closer to orgasm. I’m fucking onto him and he knows I’m ready for a rough fuck, a sharp scream escaped my lips and I came, he smiled at me, I smiled back.

He continues pounding me as he pushes me harder and harder, I keep moving my hips onto him I don’t stop. He knows I love it, he knows my body has given in completely. Expressing through sound how my body feels makes the pleasure that much more intense... the roll toward another orgasm is unstoppable. I cum hard around him, he smiled at me.

I watched him push into me, really only able to see his cock covered in my cream moving in and out. It only takes seconds for me to cum again and it’s like nothing I've ever felt before. Or so it feels. But he doesn't stop; he just keeps pushing on, pushing me, filling me. And I cum again, my ankles pressed hard into his shoulders….

I don’t remember now if he came, or how he came. I was woken up by an alarm clock…..